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Disabled ppl do your disabled friends expect YOU to take care of them?
Just wondering if anyone else has run into this. I have several disabled friends and I am on SSD now for my own disabilities of which I have several. Now one of those people is calling me every day multiple times a day wanting me to take her to physical therapy 3 times a week, take her to laundrymat, take her to bank, grocery store etc. She has I think run out of people to bug demanding neighbors she barely knows to take her places and even showering at another neighbor’s house because she broke her leg 6 weeks ago. I broke the same bone years ago and never got help from anyone. I mean I shopped, drove, went to work and showered in my own bathroom, etc and never required anyone’s help.
I have a different sleep schedule than probably most people because of my disability and she keeps calling waking me up nearly every day while I am asleep. Now she is calling me multiple times a day and left a message that she is going to keep calling me till I talk to her. She also suggested she was suicidal because no one is wanting to drive her everywhere so she is trying to lay a guilt trip on me.
I have Aspergers though my disability I think I got SSD for was the head injury, severe arthritis and autoimmune illness. I can barely walk 5-10 minutes a day myself and cannot lift more than about 2 pounds without aggravating my bad back. First off I don’t want to talk to her nor anyone else daily on the phone nor do I like having to tell her exactly what I am doing as I feel I do not owe anyone a report on what I do each day. Am I just being selfish here or is she? I just find it appalling that someone would demand someone who is physically disabled drive them around and carry heavy laundry baskets & groceries for them. I mean I got disability for a reason. If I was able to lift, carry and be on my feet I wouldn’t be disabled. Why does she think I should take care of her? She’s also a foreigner so is this just part of her culture?
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What is your take on this…?
A single woman has to put up with a man because of having had a baby (in her case he forced himself on her & jail doesn’t earn her child support) & the woman is abused, lied to & about, threatened & blackmailed (that her child will be taken away & that he will do what it takes to find her should she try to go on the run & develop a new life to get away from the abuse) & will hire a team of lawyers to beat her in court if she does not do every thing he & his psycho nutzo family members want & she has to stay at their insane beck & call 24/7, should this woman be paid for alimony for the time she did stay while trying to seek help to get out permanently & through her getting help to get on her own 2 feet to take care of herself & her baby? Or should child support be enough? This man ruined her life, because she was on her way to becoming someone & he did not want that for her life apparently. Should the courts say because she was not married on paper that does not count for anything?
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Does this sound like a healthy weight loss plan..?
Today I did a 24 hour water detox.
Tomorrow I’m eating only raw fruits and vegetables (also part of detoxing)
Thursday I’m just eating healthy & taking an epsom salt/baking soda bath to also complete the detox program.
Friday I am eating "breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a pauper."
I gave up all drinks except water of course, and orange juice I can have one glass on Sundays.
Then afterwards, I’ll just be eating super healthy and exercising for about an hour everyday.
What do ya think? (:
